Be sure....

If you're going to have an affair, be sure it's with a intelligent woman with 2 children.
Then, when you mess up, as you inevitably will, she will not cause a scene, not cause a scandal, not tell her husband.
Which I did.  Don't know what's going to happen since she (per her text) "I love you. still".
Doesn't really matter.  Co-worker X has been shattered by her man-freind cheating on her (duh, everyone who knew about the ill-fated relationship of 3 years knew that) so she's devastated. Which means next week I'll swing by her condo and make love to her.  I expect this.  I'll let y'all know.
And co-worker lady 2 (or 3) actually showed me her net worth (in the millions) today, which she does not share with her husband.
Gosh, this is fun.