Yep

Had 2.5 hours of coffee with the married woman who's heart I broke.  Her text response afterwards-"Reminds me of how much I love you".  I'll make love to her in the next 3 months.

Meanwhile the woman who went off to Europe is not back yet, her text is "we will need much wine", so I put off making love to her until next week.

Yeah yeah.  Listen son, it's a grand game, and full of a tantalizing edge of constant excitement.  This is the thing.