The secret

Want to know the secret to making love to a women?  More importantly, what to know how to become good at it?

get a cat.

I am, I dare say, an excellent lover.  I have had many partners who have expressed that.  I have brought women to orgasm who have never has an orgasm before.  How did I know to do this?

I had cats.

A dog is indiscriminate, scratch his side and he goes into paroxysms of happiness.   Not a cat.  A cat you have to sense, you have to experiment.  Experiment slowly, not abruptly.  Abrupt and the cat leaps away.  Slow and exploring and you find what makes the purr come.

Same with women's bodies.  Go slow.  Her body will tell you, clearly, what makes her hum.  Does she like a gentle touch in her private regions?  Start gentle, and see.   Hmmm, not quite there, try a little more firmness.  Oh, that made her leg move!  Try a gentle stretch.  She gasps!
Reach a little backwards, touch a less intimate area, but sensual to some.  A tiny retraction, a little pullback. Stop!  Go back where you were.

Same with a cat.

Want to be a great lover?  Get a cat, make the cat happy.  Then find a partner.